A Nigerian man (identify undisclosed) has shared his WhatsApp chats with his girlfriend in a public dialogue group as he calls for to know if his N70,000 month-to-month salary is sufficient to raise a child.
Regardless of his query within the public group, the younger man had already bashed the woman for allegedly making an attempt to get pregnant when he isn’t able to raise a child.
He accused the desperate-sounding girl of making an attempt to get pregnant in opposition to all odds by refusing to take contraceptive drugs he purchased for her.
Responding to a message from the woman who confessed to him about how she virtually acquired pregnant in opposition to his will, the younger man replied: “I love children but I don’t give a damn even if I don’t end up having them. I must be able to raise them. I can’t raise them with a salary of 70k and N-Power of 30k.”
The girl’s message from the chats learn: “Remember that day I informed you I went to see a pharmacist about my check outcomes, properly it turned out I used to be really pregnant. But because you stated you weren’t prepared for that I felt dangerous and so I lied and informed u u had nothing to fret about
“December though into January had been a actually unhappy interval for me.
“How I misplaced it, I nonetheless can’t clarify until now. I simply know I had a feeling of sharp pains in my tummy repeatedly for days after which earlier than I knew it, gone.
“I used to be scared and harm on the similar time. What u don’t know is that my protecting in contact all these whereas is as a result of I wanted to nonetheless really feel nearer to you to assist me recover from the entire state of affairs.
“Trust me if it was as much as me, my child can be kicking proper now with or with out you within the image. But I’d have actually cherished it with u within the image really.
“So am telling u this as a result of I’ve grown so fond of you, so connected, and even now, it actually hurts me once I name simply to examine up and u ignore my calls.
“But I actually perceive your state of affairs, so I gained’t push it, however I nonetheless need u to grasp that with u treating me like this, I’m human too, I’d simply resolve someday that am drained of calling u as a result of u make it appear to be am bugging u on a regular basis.
“All the identical expensive, I nonetheless care. I’ve been that means to inform u this and possibly discuss to u about different issues too. So I nonetheless need to see you at any time when you will have the time okay.😊😊😊😊😊.
“About ur crypto currency investment, I’d like to talk about that too if u don’t mind.”
The man’s reply learn: “What you simply typed makes no sense 😠.
“It means u deliberately refused to take tabs in a bid to get pregnant by all means
“Like, u wished to provide me a dangerous identify abi, to inform her or him your dad didn’t need u at start
“When I intensively informed u how I would like my youngsters to not cross by means of hardship. Besides, how have been u planning to raise the child?
“Listen, leme advise u. Society carry on pushing People to do issues however not me.. I really like youngsters however I don’t give a rattling even when I don’t find yourself having them. I need to be capable of raise them. I can’t raise them with a salary of 70k and N-Power of 30k.
“Now, u just fucked up this friendship to apex. We need to think much better than this. Call or chat me up and tell me “there is an investment, will you invest? A business idea or something.” No de motive issues wey no go make individual progress. That’s one of the explanations I referred to as off the connection.”
Meanwhile, info says the woman in query (30) is determined owing to the truth that she is scared of fast-approaching monopause.