Relationship at the brink of collapse as man splits responsibilities between himself and spouse

Young man laments the sudden tilt of their relationship after exercising future plans on particular person bills between himself and his wife-to-be.

According to the man who claims to earn N300K month-to-month whereas his lady earns N80K, he steered that certain quantity wants to enter a joint financial savings whereas the relaxation is spent on day by day wants.

Read his narration beneath …

“My girlfriend whom I’ve deliberate to quiet down with merely began appearing chilly and ultimately stylishly slide out of our relationship as a result of I sat her down and made a household monetary help proposal to her through which she will probably be financially dedicated to working the proposed household we intend to boost…

These are the proposal…

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I requested that we collectively contribute for all the youngsters’s Career funding ranging from once we get married even earlier than any of their beginning.. I proposed 10k month-to-month from her and 40k from me to a belief account. From it we plan to fund all the youngsters’s Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they select..

2. That sh select between Nepa invoice or DStv or gotv sub month-to-month..only one for her 3. I will probably be liable for rents 4. We pay into one other joint account for trip as soon as in two years..like she places in 20k I put in 50k month-to-month..

5. I present all the heavy meals stuffs required in the home in massive portions together with gasoline ND change of electronics, however she present all the day by day meals dietary supplements to mk mine full.

6. She buys her garments ND I purchase mine however we are able to each shock ourselfs with present to the different..

7. I’ll purchase the household automobile ND preserve it. If she buys no P.

8. I didn’t rule out shock presents as soon as some time and outting which I bankroll ND anticipate her to do identical sometimes..

Plz oo are these responsibilities to a spouse an excessive amount of for her, I imply one who works and earn over 50k…?”